2008-08-31

Budapest - Weeks 1 & 2

Susan & I have survived our 1st 2 weeks in Budapest. Here's a quick recap of our experiences:

Sunday/Monday Aug 17-18:

We left from Chicago and arrived in Dusseldorf, Germany at 7:30 in the morning. The problem - this was just after midnight in the U.S., so we basically missed a night of sleep. When we got off the plane in Dusseldorf we felt like we had travelled forward through time 100 years. The airport looked very futuristic. It also seemed eerily different. It took me some time to figure out why - despite there being hundreds of people around the airport was as quiet as a library. I don't know if the Germans are really this quiet, if Americans really are that loud in comparison, or if this is simply due to the fact it is early Monday morning (although it does feel like Sun night to us).

Later that day we landed in Budapest. Now it feels like we went back in time. The Budapest airport is surprisingly small and our first impression after driving through Budapest the outskirts of Budapest is that it reminds us of Latin America.

Tuesday - Friday Aug 19-22:

During these 4 days Susan and I shared a tiny dorm room. While my university is right downtown, we are disappointed to find the dorms to be 6 miles away at the edge of town in a not very aesthetically pleasing part of town.

This was a tough time as every day involved long trips around the city on public transportation looking for an apartment, dealing with our initial culture shock and the language barrier (while many people told us that a lot of people speak English here - we have found that to only be true in the more touristy parts of town).


Fri Aug 22:

We found an apartment in Buda! Budapest is actually 2 cities - flat, industrialized Pest on the east side of the Danube River and hilly, historic Buda on the west. Buda is far and away the prettier half so we are thrilled to find such a great apartment there. Yet we are still close to the bridges so I still should be able to walk to school in downtown Pest.





Sat Aug 23:

Susan and I explore the neighborhood of our new apartment for the first time. Finally I feel like we are in Europe. We walk up some narrow, steep, crooked, cobble-stone streets and ascend the hill on some even steeper brick staircases. Roughly 320 steps up from our new apt we reach the top of "Castle Hill." There are several castles up here along with a gigantic church. I am in awe of all the historic buildings in Budapest. The truth is a little disappointing as I find out that many of these supposedly several hundred year old buildings really have been destroyed and rebuilt several times. The historic bridges, for example, were all destroyed by the Nazis in 1945 as the Soviets were advancing on the city.

Still, I'm really excited about living in the midst of all this fascinating history. Our apartment building itself dates to 1822 and is protected as a national historic place. Although it is modest, Susan and I feel a little guilty as we are living in one of the wealthier parts of town. Despite our tight budget, living over here we will probably perpetuate a few stereotypes about wealthy Americans. Oh well. But at about $525/month our apartment is cheaper than what we had in Albuquerque (one of the cheapest U.S. cities for housing) and it's furnished. (If the $ hadn't weakened so much over the past year we would have gotten it even cheaper).





Sun Aug 24 - Sun Aug 31

Quick overview of Week 2: Jeremy gets sick, Susan stresses (over language barrier) Jeremy gets better, Susan stresses (over her job), Jeremy studies, Susan stresses (over difficulties with bank), Jeremy studies some more, Susan stresses some more, Jeremy gets sick again, learns how to say "Where is the bathroom?" (hol a mosdo? if you care), gets better again, decides not to drink the water, Susan still stressing (but not about Jeremy's illnesses - she's fairly confident he will live).

We did do some sight-seeing.


We also have started running again.

The first run in Budapest, and my first run in a month was quite interesting. Susan and I ran up the steps to Castle Hill, avoided the tourists, and then descended on the other side. First, we get stopped by a film crew filming an interview on the only stairs we could take to get down (nothing too strange here). Ten minutes pass and then we contine down the steps. At the bottom of the hill, we pass 2 guys and 3 heads.... Wait, hold on, I do my first and thankfully only double-take of the run. One of the men is wearing medieval armor and carrying a huge bird. It has an ugly red head so I originally thought it was a vulture. But, now I wonder if it is some sort of eagle. I remember seeing some sort of eagle or large bird on a medieval Hungarian seal - I think it is a historical symbol - I will have to read some more on that....


So, we leave King Arthur and Vulture Man and continue our run. I decide to explore some of the out-of-the way paths underneath the castle walls. First mistake....

Exploring down this path, I catch something strange out of the corner of my eye. I turn. Second mistake. I see a large - scratch that - huge lady dancing and spinning in circles with nothing on but what God gave her. Susan and I both turn away, quicken the pace down the path. Then it dead ends. Well, we surely can't turn around. So, I decide to blaze my own trail. But then we get cornered between 2 homeless men sleeping on benches and the castle wall. We look for another way. There isn't. We slowly realize we have to go past BCNL (big crazy naked lady) again. I pull my hat down so low I can only see my toes and sprint...

Lesson: While running in the more desolate parts of the mountains in Colorado and New Mexico by myself I used to talk to myself on occasion, both because I'm a little looney, and so that I don't come upon any bears in surprise. I decide as mountain man converted to an urban warrior, this strategy should also be employed while running in Europe. Funny thing is that bears and mountain lions never worried me that much. Here, I am terrified.

Sun Aug 31:

Well I start school tomorrow. I or Susan will try to post regularly. Please keep in touch.

U.S. vs.Hungary - Round 1

Airports:

U.S. - O'Hare- semi-modern, crowded and hectic
Hungary - Ferigehy - tiny and old - looks like an airport for a small 3rd world country

Americans 1, Magyars 0 - although if I included the Germans and their Dusseldorf Spaceport they would win hands down.

Money:

U.S. - old, dead Presidents
Hungary - older, deader, more crazily dressed Kings

Seems like Hungary wins. But, then there's past inflation. It takes 270 forints just to ride the bus. 2000 to get a meal. Ouch. But, on the other hand, the dollar has been weakening. Just a year ago you could get 200 forints for a dollar. Now just 160. Since this is hurting us every time we take money out of the bank, I give this one to the Magyars.

Americans 1, Magyars 1

Streets:

U.S. - congested and noisy in big cities
Hungary - surprisingly dirty - everything from the sidewalks to building walls is layered with soot. It doesn't seem like they enforce any emissions requirements here. I also imagine they burned a lot of coal during the communist period - assuming they don't today. So, be thankful next time the state makes you get an emissions test - think of the alternative.

Result: While I do like the little green man (the sign that it is okay to cross a street) he's not cool enough to overcome all the pollution. Running downtown here makes me sympathize with the Olympians who complained about running in Beijing.

Americans, 2, Magyars 1

Mental Institutions:

U.S. - in quiet, out-of-the-way locations
Hungary -apparently none as all their crazies apparently are dancing around in parks bucknaked.

Americans 4, Magyars 1 (2 pts for this one as I still can't sleep)

Cashiers

US - have to stand
Hungary - allowed to sit

Americans 4, Magyars 2

Croissants

US - small and dry
Hungary - large and filled with chocolate pudding

Americans 4, Magyars 3 - I have found a European answer to the American donut!

Beer:

US - huge range running the gamet from Natty Light to good microbrews
Hungary - seem to have one major beer and it tastes really weird.

Americans 5, Magyars 3 (Of course this is another contest the Germans would probably win if included - there are a lot of German beers sold here by the way)

Historic Buildings:

US - some 200 year old wood frame and/or brick houses in some cities
Hungary - Castles dating back as much as 700 years. Huge, beautiful, stone buildings dating hundreds of years old cover all of downtown.

Americans 5, Magyars 4 (not even close on this one)

Public Transportation

US - almost non-existent outside of the largest cities
Hungary - you can get anywhere and everywhere without a car fairly easily and fairly quickly

Americans 5, Magyars 5

Music & Movies

This one is easy, Hungarians just seem to watch American movies dubbed over in Hungarian. As for music, most public places have American music blasting through their speakers. The first song I heard at a restaurant here was "I Kissed a Girl and I Liked It"... I wonder how many of the customers knew what the song was saying....

Americans 6, Magyars 5

Sports Coverage

US - mostly basketball, baseball, and football. Other coverage is geared toward American short attention spans
Hungary - soccer, track. Olympic coverage included a lot of rowing, volleyball, and track. They actually showed an entire 5000 meter track race - and it wasn't even a final! American TV producers feel that Americans have such short attention spans - and perhaps they're right - that they only show the final lap of distance races.

Result - I miss my baseball and football, but Susan is glad for the break, plus we both like track - so this one's a wash.

Americans 6, Magyars 5

Close game. Tune in for Round 2 whenever I feel like adding some more pointless musings....

Grocery Shopping in Hungary

Grocery shopping has strangely become the most stressful activity for us so far. The first time we walked into a grocery store some ladies started to yell at us. Susan and I looked at each other for a moment wondering what we had done wrong. Then it dawned on us - they were closing.


Take 2 - enter the grocery store earlier the next day, grab a cart, pull - but it won't move. All the carts are chained together. Ignoring how foolish we probably look, we decide to wait to see what the locals do. A man walks in sticks a coin in the handle of the cart and it releases. I guess you have to pay a deposit. Since many people walk rather than drive here I assume they do this to ensure people don't walk the carts all the way home. We of course do not have the correct change so then I pantomime like a drunken monkey until a cashier realizes that I'm asking for change.


{This reminds of the time in college that I bought groceries a mile and a half and walked the cart full of groceries back to my dorm. About half way a Schnucks guard on a bike caught up to me and scolded me for taking the cart. Unfortunately for him, he and I both knew that he really could not make me do anything. I just promised him I would return it. Can't remember if I did...}


Finding food was difficult - due to the strange words on the packaging. Then we go to check out and the cashier seems to be lecturing us. I just say, "Nem Magyar" - a grammatically incorrect way of saying, "No Hungarian." She then grabs our fruits and vegetables and runs off. It turns out that we were supposed to weigh and label our own produce. So now we know 2 things about buying groceries out here - you must bring a 20-forint coin to "rent" a shopping cart and you must label your own fruits and vegetables.


We encounter one more problem while checking out. The cashier isn't giving us any bags. Through more gesturing we find out that you have to pay for bags out here. A good idea, surely it encourages customers to recycle bags. But, it would have been nice to know... worthless tourist guide....


Other problems occur in subsequent trips. The next time I get lectured again by the cashier. I try to tell her "No speak-y Hungary" - or some other Hunglish expression - but she presses on. Does she not get it? We don't speak Hungarian. Finally I stop trying to cut her off and listen. While the words don't make sense I realize she is pointing at the label on the chicken - it has come off and she wants me to get a new one with a label.


Lesson: Even if you don't understand the language, it is still important to listen - you might actually understand....


Another note on food:

While we have been waiting for our new bank account here in Hungary, money was tight the first week. For this reason and due to our problems shopping we were short on food for awhile. After skipping a few meals here and there, we did hit one moment where I split our last cookie with Susan. After breaking it in half and passing it to her I noticed tears welling up in her eyes. I guess she found this really sad that we were resorting to splitting a cookie. But, don't worry - we're not starving - we have a bank account now and can get money when we need it....